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‘In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity’

“That they might have joy” column by Jacki Wood, Nodaway News Leader

I’m standing in the middle of the road.

If you’ve ever been in the middle of a road, or seen someone who is, you know it’s probably not the safest place to be.

There’s a chance you might get hit. More likely, though, you’ll get yelled at or cursed at, honked at or shown some unfriendly hand gestures.

When I was a kid, we lived on a quiet street, so it was pretty common to see us in the middle of the road. We would play ball or skateboard or even go sledding with little concern. Now I live in the country and walking down the middle of a gravel road can be quite peaceful.

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But the road I’m standing in the middle of is not a country road. It’s not a city street. Or even a busy highway. Although it’s plenty loud. And it can feel fairly threatening.

The road I’m standing on is a political one. And I don’t think I’m alone here either.

It’s sometimes hard to see each other there in the middle, or near the middle, because the far left and the far right are zooming by us so incredibly loudly.

We’re trying to navigate each day while surrounded by the divisiveness and partisan polarization that has grown in our country in recent years. And we’re doing it, right there amidst all that yelling and cursing and honking, still trying to stand on our principles without being tossed to and fro.

Before I go any further, let me be clear…I’m not promoting silence or complicity. When there are issues we feel strongly about, we should take a stand, write our elected leaders, hold meetings, walk in parades, knock on doors, advocate, share on social media. We can do it fervently and still respectfully.

In “Eisenhower Republicanism – Pursuing the Middle Way,” author Steven Wagner writes: “In American political culture, those who describe themselves as ‘middle of the road’ are often portrayed as unwilling to take a stand or lacking in political sophistication. This was not the case with Eisenhower, whose ‘middle way’ was a carefully considered political philosophy similar to Theodore Roosevelt’s cautious progressivism.”

Eisenhower said his ‘middle way’ was a “practical working basis between extremists.”

Sounds to me like we could use some of that practicality in our current political climate.

So what can we learn from Eisenhower today?

A couple of Bills may have the answer.

Bill Kristol, a conservative Republican of the George HW Bush White House and founder of The Weekly Standard, and Bill Galston, a Democrat veteran of the Bill Clinton White House and senior fellow with the Brookings Institution, created the New Center project and wrote Ideas to Re-Center America.

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“We present some bold new ideas for re-centering America. We know that our politics have gotten off kilter. As the parties have become more polarized and our politics more partisan, the great American majority – which wants to see cooperation and compromise – has been left with no good choices.”

Their ideas center on four core values they believe can help move politics beyond polarization – opportunity, security, ingenuity and accountability.

“The ideas we advance represent a New Center for American politics, a politics that reflects both our enduring principles and the new circumstances we confront. In place of a politics stuck in the past, we offer an agenda re-centered in the future, not a tepid compromise between Left and Right, but a new way toward the stronger economy, more inclusive society and more effective politics that we all want for the country we love.”

You can read more at newcenter.org.

Albert Einstein said: “In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.” While we might be going through some difficult times, there might also be some great opportunities out there to discover.

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So if you’re like me and standing in the middle of the road, or on the shoulder of one side or the other, let’s look for ways to come together and not be drowned out by all the yelling and cursing and honking.

I’d much rather help build bridges (than walls) to help unite and strengthen our nation.

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The Next Generation – Gregory family continues tradition

By Jacki Wood for The Herald, Sweet Springs, MO

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Three-year-old Reagan Sneed skips about the family farm, kicking up dust with ease in the unusually dry mid-September afternoon air.

Happy and carefree, she sings as she skips, trying to entice Amber, the weeks-old bottle calf, to follow her lead. Reagan grabs the calf by the neck and kisses her.

“Amber is my friend,” Reagan says. “I help feed a bottle. And I sing to her.

“She runs and jumps. And sometimes she gets frisky.”

The bond between a girl and her calf has formed.

And so it begins with Reagan. Another generation. The fifth generation, actually, of Gregory Polled Herefords.

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E.H. Gregory started the family business in 1932 in Green Ridge and later moved to the Houstonia area.

His son, J.D., carried on the tradition and passed it on to his son, Kevin, who continues the family business today.

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Kevin and his wife, Barb, have four daughters – Jennifer, 33, Devann, 21, Morgann, 19, and Jordann, 18. Jennifer and her husband, Brian Sneed, are the parents to Reagan and her one-year-old brother, Rhett.

All live within a mile of the family farm. And all of the girls began showing cattle at the same age as Reagan is now.

It’s their legacy, Barb says.

“It’s our family heritage,” she said. “It’s what they love, what they’ll do forever, what they’ll pass down to their kids.”

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Showing cattle takes dedication and responsibility. The process begins in December when they choose their animals and begin breaking them. It continues through the end of the summer with local shows, the Missouri State Fair and the Junior National Show.

Kids can begin showing at age three with bottle calves for local shows and the junior nationals are for youth ages 8-22.

It means no days off. No snow days. Early mornings and late nights. Taking care of the cattle on those unbearably hot summer days in the humidity Missouri is known for as well as the bitter cold, snow and ice that wintertime can bring.

“It’s just a lot of hands on,” Kevin said.

They walk, wash and work them every day, spending an hour or even two or three with them, depending on the time of year.

“The more you get your hands on the animal, the better they will act,” Devann said.

After months of preparation and hours of work, taking their cattle to the shows can lead to mixed feelings. Some of the cattle they are excited to sell and some they have become very attached to and are hard to see go.

“They are like your children and it’s very hard to get rid of them,” Jordann said.
“I cry every year no matter how old I am.”

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As the years pass, the Gregory name has become synonymous with success. And at cattle shows, that means bringing home the Grand Champion purple banner.

“We’ve done pretty well,” Kevin said. “We’ve all, at some point, brought the purple banner home. And we have sold animals that we have raised that have done the same thing.”

While the successes have been many, there are a few that were especially significant to each of them.

In 2006, Jordann won Grand Champion Hereford Steer at the State Fair, her first year showing steers there.

Last year, Devann pulled a little heifer out of the pasture a couple of weeks before a show, not expecting her to do well. But she was named Champion Division Winner in both the FFA and the open show.

This summer, Morgann won Grand Champion Bred and Owned Heifer at the Pettis County Livestock Show.

Sometimes, though, it’s not the cattle being shown, but the cattle they’ve sold. In 1999 while attending the National Western Stock Show in Denver, they came across a calf that Kevin had sold who had won Reserve Division Champion.

But it’s not just about the champions or the results.

It’s also about the process, traveling together, meeting people and having fun together.

“Going to different shows, like our junior nationals,” Morgann said, “you get to meet and make friends from all over the United States that you wouldn’t necessarily have the opportunity to meet outside of showing cattle.”

They form friendships that last over the years. And when they are at a show, Kevin will invariably run into someone he knew growing up.

“We’ve been in long enough that kids I showed with 25-30 years ago, now their kids are showing,” he said.

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Barb grew up in Kansas City and married into this but she seems to be the glue that holds it all together.

The girls said she helps wash the animals, helps walk them and she makes sure they get where they need to be with everything they need – and on time.

When it comes down to it, it’s really all about family.

“It’s something you can do with your whole family,”Barb said.

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From J.D. at 80 years of age down to Reagan at three years, they are all involved and love it.

Kevin said his father still goes to all of the shows.

“Wherever the kids are, he’s there ready to help,” he said. “With Reagan and the bottle calf, he makes sure he’s got her bottle ready to go and he goes out there with her. It’s neat to see him with her.”And it would seem the Gregory legacy will continue for years to come.