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‘No one is born hating another person’

That they might have joy column, by Jacki Wood, written for the Nodaway News Leader

The movie “42” tells the story of Jackie Robinson who broke the color barrier in Major League Baseball in 1947.

One of the most heartbreaking scenes is when a young, white boy and his father attend a Brooklyn Dodgers game, and as Robinson takes the field, the father starts screaming, “hey nigger, we don’t want you here,” along with many others in the crowd.

Reluctantly and visibly uncomfortable about the taunts and racial slurs, the boy joins his father in yelling at Robinson.

It reminds me of Nelson Mandela in “Long Walk to Freedom” when he said: “No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, his background or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”

Have you noticed how much hate their is in our country right now?

It’s everywhere.

People are angry about everything.

A CNN/ORC poll from December suggests 69 percent of Americans are either “very angry” or “somewhat angry” about the way things are going in the US.

Sixty-nine percent.

Ferguson. San Bernardino. Charleston. Black Lives Matter. White Lives Matter. Blue Lives Matter. All Lives Matter. Anti-gay, anti-Jew, anti-Muslim, anti-refugees, anti-government. Gun rights vs gun control. The very rich vs the very poor and the middle class. And the Presidential race.

Hate can be seen everywhere.

Last month, Mark Potok, editor of the SPLC’s Intelligence Report, wrote: “the number of hate and antigovernment ‘Patriot’ groups grew last year and terrorist attacks and radical plots proliferated.”

He continued: “Antigovernment militiamen, white supremacists, abortion foes, domestic Islamist radicals, neo-Nazis and lovers of the Confederate battle flag targeted police, government officials, black churchgoers, Muslims, Jews, schoolchildren, Marines, abortion providers, members of the Black Lives Matter protest movement and even drug dealers.

“They laid plans to attack courthouses, banks, festivals, funerals, schools, mosques, churches, synagogues, clinics, water treatment plants and power grids.

“The situation appears likely to get worse, not better, as the country continues to come to terms with its increasing diversity … Americans are arguably as angry as they have been in decades.”

The problem will not get better if we continue to let it grow.

In Galatians 6:7, the Apostle Paul wrote, “whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.”

Jeffrey R. Holland said: “if we sow thistles, we don’t really plan to get strawberries … we sow a little thistle and we get a lot of thistle — years and years of it, big bushes and branches of it. We never get rid of it unless we cut it out.

“If we sow a little bit of hate, before we know it we’ve reaped a lot of hate — smoldering and festering and belligerent and finally warring, malicious hate.”

So… what is so wrong with hate?

Well, first of all, we don’t have time for it. There are many great things waiting to be discovered, learned and shared that we don’t have time to waste on hate.

President Abraham Lincoln said: “No man resolved to make the most of himself can spare time for personal contention … Better give your path to a dog than be bitten by him.”

It’s also bad for our health.

Harvard-trained and board-certified cardiologist Dr. Cynthia Thaik said: “Prolonged bouts of anger can take a toll on the body in the form of high blood pressure, stress, anxiety, headaches and poor circulation. Research also shows that even one five-minute episode of anger is so stressful that it can impair your immune system for more than six hours. These can lead to more serious problems such as heart attacks and stroke.”

To overcome this, she suggests the following: acknowledge the anger, realize why, step back, deal with it, talk to someone and let it go.

In the end, however, we simply need to stop it.

“When it comes to our own prejudices and grievances, we too often justify our anger as righteous,” Dieter F. Uchtdorf said. “When it comes to hating, gossiping, ignoring, ridiculing, holding grudges or wanting to cause harm, please apply the following:

“Stop it!”

In November 2014, following the grand jury investigation in Ferguson, Benjamin Watson of the New Orleans Saints penned a Facebook post that went viral.

“Ultimately the problem is not a SKIN problem, it is a SIN problem. SIN is the reason we rebel against and … abuse our authority. SIN is the reason we are racist, prejudiced and lie.

“But I’m encouraged because God has provided a solution for sin through the his son Jesus. I’m encouraged because the Gospel gives mankind hope.”

Uchtdorf continued: “We simply have to stop judging others and replace judgmental thoughts and feelings with a heart full of love for God and His children.”

I believe this is the way.

If they can learn to hate, as Mandela said, they can be taught to love.


I’ve jumped on the bandwagon & I’m not afraid to admit it

by Jacki Wood, “That they might have joy” column, written for the Nodaway News Leader  

I wrote a lengthy Facebook post last October about how I was quickly becoming a Kansas City Royals fan.

“I’ve never been one to jump on the bandwagon for anything,” I wrote. “I’m also not one to root for a team just because you live near them, which is why I’ve never been a Royals or a Chiefs fan.”

“And, I’m not really a baseball fan either. I enjoy watching the postseason every now and again, but not much more than that.

“But…

“I think I’m jumping on this Royals bandwagon. And I’m not ashamed to admit it.

“I watched that crazy wild card comeback win and now I’m hooked. I’ve watched every game since then, staying up way past my bedtime when they’ve gone into extra innings, and I keep asking myself, ‘What are you doing? You don’t even like them.’

“But this team… There’s something I can only describe as magical about them.

“Let me say this, however, I’ve been a Jeremy Guthrie fan since he arrived in Kansas City (he played briefly at BYU before transferring to Stanford). And since I follow him on Twitter and Instagram, I’ve sort of been in the Royals loop all season long.

“It’s more than that now, though. I thoroughly enjoy watching these guys play. The chemistry, the defense, the bullpen, the speed… they truly are a special team.”

The Royals eventually lost to the Giants in the World Series. And that’s where I thought my bandwagoning would end.

But then a couple of weeks ago, I turned on the TV and saw Guthrie was pitching. And so I watched. And then again the next day. And the next. And then the next day when they weren’t playing, I bought my first Royals T-shirt.

And I’m still watching.

My husband asked what was going on with me. He usually gets a sports reprieve between basketball and football seasons.

Is it the winning? Possibly.

I mean, that’s how it started last fall anyway.

But it’s more than that. There’s just something about these boys in blue.

“A lot of baseball fans fell in love with Kansas City last fall,” MLB.com columnist Anthony Castrovince wrote last week.

I know I did. And I’m not even a baseball fan.

Go Royals.